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(motivational orchestral music) – But my lesson is this I don't give a shit (applause) okay? You cannot let a fear of failure or a fear of comparison or a fear of judgment stop you from doing what's going to make you great

You cannot succeed without this risk of failure You can not have a voice without the risk of criticism And you cannot love without the risk of loss You must go out and you must take these risks And people will tell you to do what makes you happy

But a lot of this has been hard work And I'm not always happy And I don't think you should do just what makes you happy I think you should do what makes you great Do what's uncomfortable and scary and hard but pays off in the long run

Be willing to fail Let yourself fail Fail in the way in the place where you would want to fail Fail, pick yourself up and fail again Because without this struggle, what is your success anyway? But as best we know it, we have one life

In it, you have to trust your own voice, your own ideas, your honesty, your vulnerability and through this, you will find your way You do not have to be fearless Just don't let fear stop you Live like this as best you can and I guarantee you will look back on a life well lived – As I moved to California, $700 in my pocket and my toddler

And I have to fight the good fight because people are telling me, "I can't, you can't do this, you can't "are you crazy? "You're moving to California with your son? "You'll never make it" I was 26 when I decided to come here There's the age thing "Ah, you're too old" If you listen to people and if you allow people to project their fears on to you, you won't live

What if I believed those people who told me that when I became pregnant in college that I wouldn't finish? I walked across that stage with my son on my hip And I collected my degree My diploma (applause) I didn't hear the naysayers when they were like, "you're too old to go to California "If you don't hit by 25, you're not gonna make it

" I will be 46 this year I am just touching the surface I am just getting started I wasn't born with a silver spoon in my mouth, you know I had a passion

I had a dream And I dived in And I went for my dream and it all starts with you You're the temple and you have control You're in a bad situation, it's up to you to get out of it

You can't give another human the responsibility of your happiness – When you have a dream, it doesn't often come at you screaming in your face This is who you are This is what you must be for the rest of your life Sometimes a dream almost whispers

And I've always said to my kids, "the hardest thing to listen to, "your instincts, your human personal intuition, "always whispers, it never shouts" Very hard to hear So you have to everyday of your lives be ready to hear what whispers in your ear It very rarely shouts And if you can listen to the whisper and if it tickles your heart and it's something you think you want to do for the rest of your life, then that is going to be what you do for the rest of your life and we will benefit from everything you do

Thank you very much – So don't be unconscious all day on your phone (audience laughs) Don't we live now in a bit of a very shallow world? Pop culture is extremely shallow And we're just asking the world to get deep I don't like wasting my time spending days just shaking people's hands and smiling taking selfies

It feels shallow to my existence I have a lot more to offer than my image I don't like being used to make people money I feel sad when I'm overworked and that I've just become a money making machine and that my passion and my creativity take a back seat That makes me unhappy

So what did I do? I started to say no I'm not doing that I don't want to do that I'm not taking that picture I'm not going to that event

I'm not standing by that because that's not what I stand for Slowly but surely, I remembered who I am And then you go home and you look in the mirror and you're like, yes I can go to bed with you every night – Lobster is a soft mushy animal that lives inside of a rigid shell

That rigid shell does not expand Well how can the lobster grow? Well, as the lobster grows, that shell becomes very confining And the kind of the lobster feels itself under pressure And uncomfortable It goes under a rock formation to protect itself from predatory fish, casts off the shell and produces a new one

Well eventually, that shell becomes very uncomfortable as it grows right? Back under the rocks I think lobster repeats this numerous times The stimulus for the lobster to be able to grow is that it feels uncomfortable If lobsters had doctors, they would never grow Because as soon as the lobster feels uncomfortable, goes to the doctor, gets a Valium, gets some Percocet, feels fine! Never gets off its shell

So I think we have to realize is that we have to realize that times of stress, are also times that are signals for growth And if we use adversity properly we can grow through adversity – I personally am most unworthy But I brought a girl child from the street And I could see in the face of the child, that child was hungry

God knows how many days, has not eaten So I gave her a piece of bread And the little one started eating the bread crumb by crumb And I said eat, I said to the child, "eat the bread "Eat the bread

" And she looked at me and said, "I'm afraid "to eat the bread "Because I'm afraid "when it is finished "I will be hungry again" This is a reality Maybe we are not hungry for a piece of bread But maybe there is somebody there in the family who is unwanted, unloved, uncared, forgotten

There is love Love begins at home And love to be true has to hurt And this is what I bring before you To love one another

That great love – [Jim Carrey] Your need for acceptance can make you invisible in this world Like many of you, I was concerned about going out into the world and doing something bigger than myself Until someone smarter than myself made me realize that there is nothing bigger than myself Don't let anything stand in the way of the light that shines through this form

Risk being seen in all of your glory Our eyes are not viewers, they are also projectors That are running a second story over the picture that we see in front of us all the time Fear is writing that script And the working title is I'll Never Be Enough

Spend your whole life imaging those, worrying about the pathway to the future But all that will ever be is what's happening here And the decisions we make in this moment which are based in either love or fear So many of us choose our path out of fear disguised as practicality What we really want seems impossibly out of reach and ridiculous to expect so we never dare to ask the universe for it

I'm saying, I am the proof that you can ask the universe for it I realized one night in LA, that the purpose of my life had always been to free people from concern, just like my dad I did something that made people present their best selves to me wherever I go How will you serve the world? What did they need that your talent can provide? That's all I have to figure out I can tell you from experience the effect you have on others is the most valuable currency there is

You can fail, at what you don't want So you might as well take a chance on doing what you love Relax, and dream up a good life – This is the most important and crucial period of your lives for what you do now and what you decide now at this age may well determine which way your life shall go And the question is, whether you have a proper, a solid, and a sound blueprint

And I want to suggest some of the things that should be in your life's blueprint Number one in your life's blueprint should be a deep belief in your own dignity, your own worth, and your own somebodiness Don't allow anybody to make you feel that you are nobody Always feel that you count Always feel that you have worth

And always feel that your life has ultimate significance Secondly, in your life's blueprint, you must have as a basic principle, the determination to achieve excellence in your various fields of endeavor You're gonna be deciding as the days and the years unfold what you will do in life What your life's work will be Once you discover what it will be, set out to do it

And to do it well Be a bush if you can't be a tree If you can't be a highway, just be a trail If you can't be the sun, be a star For is it by size that you win or you fail, be the best of whatever you are

(applause) finally in your life's blueprint, must be a commitment to the eternal principles of beauty, love, and justice Well life for none of us has been a crystal stair, but we must keep moving We must keep going If you can't fly, run If you can't run, walk

If you can't walk, crawl But by all means, keep moving – You will fail at some point in your life Accept it You will lose

You will embarrass yourself You will suck at something There's no doubt about it I was a 18 GPA one semester

And the university very politely suggested that it might be better to take some time off I was 20 years old, I was at my lowest point But here's the thing I didn't quit I didn't fall back

But I continued to fail and fail and fail, but it didn't matter because you know what? There's an old saying You hang around the barber shop long enough, sooner or later, you're gonna get a haircut So you will catch a break, and I did catch a break Last year, I did a play called Fences on Broadway It was at the same theater that I failed that first audition 30 years prior

Thomas Edison conducted 1,000 failed experiments Did you know that? I didn't know that Because the 1,001st was the light bulb Fall forward Sometimes, it's the best way to figure out where you're going

Never be discouraged Never hold back Give everything you've got And when you fall throughout life, remember this, fall forward – [Robin Williams] You know, as we come to the end of this phase of our life, we find ourselves trying to remember the good times, and trying to forget the bad times

And we find ourselves thinking about the future We start to worry Thinking what am I going to do? Where am I going to be in 10 years? But I say to you, hey, look at me Please don't worry so much Because in the end, none of us have very long on this earth

Life is fleeting And if you're ever distressed, cast your eyes to the summer sky When the stars are strung across the velvety night, and when a shooting star streaks through the blackness turning night into day make a wish Think of me And make your life spectacular

I know I did

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